In my little years in our transient world, I have seen many envious relationships crumble either suddenly or gradually neither because they were devoid of genuine feelings nor because there were instances irresponsibility. On so many occasions, many of us let our inherent egos deter us from sharing the challenges we experience. Some suppress their urges to share with thoughts that they will be regarded as being desperate, others simply want to paint perfect pictures of their relationships to everyone around them.
Be it formal, platonic or intimate, human relationships are not without shortcomings. Even homozygote twins have some differences. Communication has proven to be the best path towards resolving differences, do not let your relationship be an exception. The action of sharing will not only create a platform for your grievances, it’ll lift the burden created by your silence. The end of a relationship begins with a silent mind battle. Don’t assume you have answers to every questionable act by your partner. Do not waste any second trying to fix matters that affect your relationship all in your head. Keep communication lines open always, even on issues that are not necessarily threats to the relationship.
More importantly, express your grievances when your partner can actually listen. Create a receptive environment for whatever you want to discuss. Do you want to be cautious about how to go about it? Indulge a friend, cousin, co-worker or anyone who strikes you as being in the best position to lend you a candid advice. If you’ll be more comfortable to share with a neutral individual with an adequate level of professionalism and discreetness please hit me up via my email: phourxydeed@gmail.com. No one is an island of knowledge. Let’s rub minds!
