Beds of lies-beds of stones.

   

Remember those moments you so hoped your partner would just say the gospel truth especially on trivial issues? Those reiterating monologues resulting from our failure to understand why our "lovers" would spit out blatant lies. We all sure feel an instant disgust when that individual we hold close to our hearts decides to opt for a false account of an event. It's even worse when we are aware of the actual scenes of such an event.
     Lies, like those little cracks on a wall, are catalysts to any challenge or loophole one can think of as far as a relationship is concerned. The development of trust is proportional to the quality of truthfulness in every genuine bond between opposite sexes. If you have ever been on the receiving end, you'll totally agree that the effect of just one simple lie can crush a relationship that has been fortified with unimaginable promises. Yes!  It is that bad.        Worryingly, lying partners tend to justify this corrosive habit with irritating statements like: "I tell lies to protect my relationship",  "the truth is too bitter to bear", "no one is perfect" and many more. As humanly as these statements sound,  it not acceptable in every sense of rationality. If roles were to be switched,  who would love to be lied to?  Who can actually sleep at night knowing their partners are capable of retrieving the truth about a situation? I bet your conscious and sub-conscious minds will not stop trying to give explanations about how your partner must have felt when cooking up the lies.
Without further ado, if you are still wondering why your relationship is not working out, do a background check on whether your bed isn't that of lies. The true extent of the consequences of lies are negatively grave. Don't litter your bed with stones and expect a thorn-free rest. Make a pact with "truth". Even when it seems so hard to spill, DO NOT compromise. Remember that the heartache from lies affects both lovers. A bed of lies Is a bed of stones.

Two Can Play The (intimacy) Game

      

  So many times, I hear disturbing statements with overtones of venomous bitterness spilled by ladies who feel the pleasures of intimacy are only for male counterparts. While a large part of these reasoning patterns can be said to have been induced by the society we find ourselves, it is no excuse to keep dwelling in such misconceptions as several forms of awareness have been raised to show that lovemaking is in fact more pleasurable for females, should they know exactly how to go about it. To be fair, it is true that the aim of climaxing clouds the thoughts of most men during intimacy. Who says a woman’s thought should not be clouded by such selfish aims? To a large extent, females dictate the development of love making activities just before “the beast” is unleashed for penetration. In most cases, even a very egocentric man finds himself dancing to whatever tune his female partner composes. The moment before he is allowed to embark on his lonely but gruesome struggle for climax is one in which his vulnerability is laid bare.

                How exactly do you want to be touched? What are your favorite spots? Whatever tickles your fancy, this is the ideal time to play your best cards. If your desire is to get him to make you experience all the fantasy there is in intimacy, trust me, he’ll gladly oblige. Let him understand that he is entitled to whatever he gives and you’ll see him approach the occasion with uttermost dedication and seriousness.

Do not however, allow that feeling of inexplicable arousal which occurs as a result of your temporary dictatorial rule overwhelm and prompt you to short-live your reign. Get at least very close to your “Eden” before you change the decree that held “him” captive.

                These tips are very practicable. Follow them holistically, experience the realistic fantasy of intimacy. If he’s got game, then its game on for you too.