Remember those moments you so hoped your partner would just say the gospel truth especially on trivial issues? Those reiterating monologues resulting from our failure to understand why our "lovers" would spit out blatant lies. We all sure feel an instant disgust when that individual we hold close to our hearts decides to opt for a false account of an event. It's even worse when we are aware of the actual scenes of such an event.
Lies, like those little cracks on a wall, are catalysts to any challenge or loophole one can think of as far as a relationship is concerned. The development of trust is proportional to the quality of truthfulness in every genuine bond between opposite sexes. If you have ever been on the receiving end, you'll totally agree that the effect of just one simple lie can crush a relationship that has been fortified with unimaginable promises. Yes! It is that bad. Worryingly, lying partners tend to justify this corrosive habit with irritating statements like: "I tell lies to protect my relationship", "the truth is too bitter to bear", "no one is perfect" and many more. As humanly as these statements sound, it not acceptable in every sense of rationality. If roles were to be switched, who would love to be lied to? Who can actually sleep at night knowing their partners are capable of retrieving the truth about a situation? I bet your conscious and sub-conscious minds will not stop trying to give explanations about how your partner must have felt when cooking up the lies.
Without further ado, if you are still wondering why your relationship is not working out, do a background check on whether your bed isn't that of lies. The true extent of the consequences of lies are negatively grave. Don't litter your bed with stones and expect a thorn-free rest. Make a pact with "truth". Even when it seems so hard to spill, DO NOT compromise. Remember that the heartache from lies affects both lovers. A bed of lies Is a bed of stones.
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