Exactly how long should a relationship last?

 

As years flip through,  long term relationships are fast fading from reality into tele-novelas. The hurt and waste of time which constitute the consequences of  this type of relationship has kept so many from travelling that road.  For men, the scar from a failed long term relationship seem to clear up in no time but the female folk cannot say the same. Experiences have shown that ladies are hardly capable to start all over again. The thought of trying to adjust their lifetystles which has been fine- tuned becomes a nightmare. In general the irreversible commitment by both parties  is one very difficult sacrifice to make these days.
    However, let's not forget that there are two sides to a coin.  It uncritical to not highlight the numerous advantages of a long term relationship and it's gross success in the past and present. Having spent so much time together,  partners seem to be fond of each other. Each party learns to cope with the other, the bond is usually without limits. It also promotes deep levels of trust in one another, in fact the list is endless.  Let it be known also that couples who dated for long periods tend to be more resilient in keeping their marriages.
      The sad truth about all good relationships is that things cannot always be smooth.  Challenging times will pop up and being able to fight for the relationship as best as one can is key to its success.  Both parties need to learn to forgive and know that nothing good comes easy. Partners should approach shortcomings as a test, overcome them and move on quickly.
     Its very delightful to wake up every morning knowing that someone somewhere trusts and loves you unconditionally. Many years of being together guarantees this.  So if you have been seeing someone for some time, do your best to keep him/her for as long as you can.  Unimaginable joy awaits you.  And if you are still not convinced that long term relationships are ideal,  ask yourself if marriages are without glitches.