Has he/she torn your world apart? Has your hope been dashed? Your plans have been shattered. No! your happiness has been soiled. The bastard should be punished. How can you get back at this person ? Your heart must be filled with disgust right now. Never! You can't go into any relationship with commitments again. The list can go on and on. These are our thoughts when we've been hurt. The excruciating pain of a failed relationship, One of those unfortunate events we encounter as humans.
Some nurture these thoughts like a nursing mother to her child. Others regurgitate them when their minds are idle. Yes! It is very difficult to forgive but what will the grudges lead to? Many find themselves literally bitter for so many months, sometimes years just because they've been hurt. Some become sexists and others are busy plotting towards the downfall of their "heartbreakers".
Often times, grudges overpower those good parts of us and turn us into beings we never could have imagined. The inability to snap out of an unpalatable situation keeps the mind depressed. Forgiving unleashes sadness, it makes the mind light, it cures the illness of bitterness and to a large extent it makes us stronger. Shock that "heartbreaker" today and set your soul free.
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